The simplicity in the complications of life....
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Wednesday, March 18, 2015
Holiday in France
Holidays
are great. You take time off your routine wake up- work –work out- sleep
routine and you get time for yourself. At least holidays have to be like that.
They should not be filled with itineraries jam packed with things to do and
sights to see but they should be occasions to spend time alone and with your
spouse and introspect and assimilate. Assimilation and introspection can give
you some great ideas about life as a whole and the next step ahead in
particular. Holidays should provide the time to contemplate sbout at what stage
in life we have arrived, where exactly are we heading, what our goals are and
how to get there. Just collecting
memories of sights, places and perfect photographs alone cant make a holiday
great, I think.
I
have at this point reached a stage where I work as a consultant orthopedic
surgeon specializing in sports surgery and shoulder. I love my job. I love the
place I work. I am married and have a sweet wife who is good to me most of the
times. That’s the best she could do I
suppose.
I am
passing through great French countryside with canals, lush green forests and
pasture. It is beautiful. I am sitting on TGV, the high speed train of France
and Europe.
The
plan next is to expand my practice. Obviously every surgeon likes to operate
more. To get the right patients and to
convince them for surgery has been a challenge for shoulder surgery.
The
way to do it, I am not yet sure about how to go about it. But what I can tell
is I am not going to die for it. I would like to “make” great surgeries yes,
for sure. But the whining will not be there. On the long run, all that matters
is contentment in life. I can make
millions and still not be happy with it. I will take life easy. I am not going
to make it big like Sachin Tendulkar or Amitabh bachan in this life. Because
the profession I have chosen is such. Also, the pressure of fame is not a good
thing. I pity famous people. Well, fame and money is all that the world is
after. But one should know where and
when to stop the search as the search is endless. The purpose becomes lost when
the search gets into you and starts ruling you. I guess narrow mindedness has
no place in the pursuit of happiness and fame and money. Selfishness cant give
you long term happiness. Protecting your interests – how important is it?
Well,
I don’t know. I will know in ten years. Life teaches you lessons with time. You
can’t learn them all in one day.
Learning and aging gracefully is the goal.
Train
journeys have been good for me. This in fact is the one I am taking after
a long time. The y give you time to sit
back, while enjoying the country, you can think.
Toulouse
has been great in some respects – like learning shoulder work. Dr Kany is a guy
like Thin, only much more agile and active, and jovial at the same time.
Toulouse is sort of a place I would like to visit, not too big, not too small,
not much to see, so lots of time with yourself. Bernard and Christian have been
good hosts, they arranged a wonderful dinner yesterday night with Ratatouille
and Apple pie and lots of wine and whiskey. I loved it. We had discussions
ranging from Robert Kennedy to EU elections to French history to history of the
Church of England. We also had a couple from Switzerland joining us, which was
good. They say Paris would be great but I doubt it.
What
did we do in Toulouse? We walked on the endless cobbled streets and alleys in
the centre ville. Lots of huge brick buildings. Had lunch at a vegetarian
buffet place, which I liked, and Siva didn’t. Went for a swim at Leo Lagrange,
a local swimming pool, olimpique size, which I liked. Sat on the banks of
Garonne braving short spells of warmth and cold and rain. Went around the centre
ville on the free shuttle bus. Visited a few museums – the hall of fame in the
place du capitol, the Musee de Augustins showcasing Roman sculpture and art and
religious art from medieval times. I hired a cycle from the excellent public
cycle hire system in Toulouse called Velo Toulouse and went around the city by
cycle. Visited the Les Abattoires – museum of modern art where humungous sized
paintings were on display. It might surely take tremendous time and effort to complete
such paintings to perfection.
The
churches – cathedrals we visited were huge brick buildings built 500 – 600
years ago, some as early as 12th or 13th century. France seems to be a religious nation to me,
the cathedrals are divine, the silence and the pipe music both pulling you
inwards. I see a lot of families with young men and children attending mass. JK
is good, but I disagree with his idea that any religion is madness. To me,
faith is a wonderful thing; religious places are like oasis in this desert of
selfishness, lust and ambition. They help you reflect and meditate. Something melts inside me when I see an
individual convicted in his faith, praying in front of the deity. Tears some
times swell up my eyes and an emotion close to empathy prevails in me for the
moment. That’s the best I could describe it. The individual can be anybody – an
old man praying at a temple, a woman at the church or a small boy with all his
innocence prostrating in front of the sanctum. I had a similar feeling when I saw
people sitting in the mass in these Catholic churches. France is a strong
catholic nation and people take religion seriously here. Religious relics are
the most important monuments in Toulouse.
People
in Toulouse are quite warm. They are polite and ready to help with whatever
English they can manage. Bernie was a good host, the room or rooms he offered
were small yet cozy, the bathroom was congested and a little more space would
have been lovely. He was ready to help anytime with any thing, which was great.
He spoke the best English in Toulouse, which was a consolation.
On
our way here, we stopped at Frankfurt and visited the city a good few
hours. We walked through the streets
which were not crowded, reached the center place, went to a church, sat on the
banks of river Maine, had a beer in the restaurant there and headed back to the
airport.
One
ubiquitous thing present everywhere in the air in Europe is cigarette smoke.
There is no gender or age difference to smoking here. People smoke like
chimneys here, polluting the whole atmosphere around them.
Sitting
in the return flight to Madras, as the rest of world still knows her, I think
that the days of European sunshine, bright and warm enough but not scorching
like back home are over. Over are the days in cities with old giant cathedrals,
rivers with medieval bridges, baguettes with cheese and spinach and
tomato, lots of street side eateries and
great beer and wine. What strikes my
mind when I think about this trip is the Eiffel – an amazing masterpiece of art
of the modern era. If Paris is one of the most visited cities in the world, it
is not without reason. The French have been connoisseurs of art like any other
people who have a reasonably long period of stable governance. Back home, the 9th
through the 17th centuries saw great monuments built with such
artistic mastery and all that was possible because there were not many wars and
people had stable governments. Similarly, all over Europe we can find monuments
built through the ages starting from the pre Christian era to the medieval ages
to the modern times. But huge monuments in the form of cathedrals of the middle
ages predominate the old cities in Europe. The architecture is of a different
sort, unlike the stone temples of South India; these cathedrals are magnificent
brick buildings with gothic arches, domes and stained glasses. Most of them are
dedicated to the Mother Mary and are under the Vatican.
People
on France have generally been warm to us. Right from our stay in Toulouse, it
has been smooth going for us. Talking about Eiffel, this tower redefines
beauty. The perception of beauty also is some sort of conditioning. You get
told about beautiful things and you start believing that they are beautiful,
just like the fad for fair skin in the sub continent. With buildings like the
Notre Dame and Sacer Coer and Louvre
defining beauty, the Eiffel is perhaps the only non religious monument with a revolutionary
style giving a new definition to artistic beauty all together. Unlike other buildings
that cover the skeleton with layers of plaster and facades and cloth and paintings,
in Eiffel, the steel skeleton stands proud, as if it has got nothing to hide
from the world, with the might of a warrior who looks at the world he had just
conquered.
Tuesday, February 17, 2015
The great Adi Shankara (first Shankaracharya) of the eighth century summarized the entirety of Advaita Vedanta (non-dualistic philosophy) in six stanzas. When a young boy of eight, while wandering in the Himalayas, seeking to find his guru, he encountered a sage who asked him, "Who are you?" The boy answered with these stanzas, which are known as "Nirvana Shatakam" or "Atma Shatakam." "Nirvana" is complete equanimity, peace, tranquility, freedom and joy. "Atma" is the True Self. The sage the boy was talking to was Swami Govindapada Acharya, who was, indeed, the teacher he was looking for.
These few verses can be of tremendous value to progress in contemplation practices that lead to Self-Realization.
1) | I am not mind, nor intellect, nor ego, nor the reflections of inner self (chitta). [more] I am not the five senses. [more] I am beyond that. I am not the ether, nor the earth, nor the fire, nor the wind (the five elements). I am indeed, That eternal knowing and bliss, Shiva, love and pure consciousness. |
2) | Neither can I be termed as energy (prana), nor five types of breath (vayus), [more] nor the seven material essences, [more] nor the five coverings (pancha-kosha). [more] Neither am I the five instruments of elimination, procreation, motion, grasping, or speaking. [more] I am indeed, That eternal knowing and bliss, Shiva, love and pure consciousness. |
3) | I have no hatred or dislike, nor affiliation or liking, nor greed, nor delusion, nor pride or haughtiness, nor feelings of envy or jealousy. I have no duty (dharma), nor any money, nor any desire (kama), nor even liberation (moksha). I am indeed, That eternal knowing and bliss, Shiva, love and pure consciousness. |
4) | I have neither merit (virtue), nor demerit (vice). I do not commit sins or good deeds, nor have happiness or sorrow, pain or pleasure. I do not need mantras, holy places, scriptures (Vedas), rituals or sacrifices (yagnas). I am none of the triad of the observer or one who experiences, the process of observing or experiencing, or any object being observed or experienced. I am indeed, That eternal knowing and bliss, Shiva, love and pure consciousness. |
5) | I do not have fear of death, as I do not have death. I have no separation from my true self, no doubt about my existence, nor have I discrimination on the basis of birth. I have no father or mother, nor did I have a birth. I am not the relative, nor the friend, nor the guru, nor the disciple. I am indeed, That eternal knowing and bliss, Shiva, love and pure consciousness. |
6) | I am all pervasive. I am without any attributes, and without any form. I have neither attachment to the world, nor to liberation (mukti). I have no wishes for anything because I am everything, everywhere, every time, always in equilibrium. I am indeed, That eternal knowing and bliss, Shiva, love and pure consciousness. |
Sanskrit: | |
Mano Buddhi Ahankara Chitta Ninaham Nacha Shrotra Jihve Na Cha Ghrana Netre Nacha Vyoma Bhoomir Na Tejo Na Vayu Chidananda Rupa Shivoham Shivoham | |
Na Cha Prana Samjno Na Vai Pancha Vayu Na Va Saptadhatur Na Va Pancha Koshah Na Vak Pani Padau Na Chopastha Payu Chidananda Rupa Shivoham Shivoham | |
Na Me Dvesha Ragau Na Me Lobha Mohau Mado Naiva Me Naiva Matsarya Bhavah Na Dharmo Na Chartho Na Kamo Na Mokshah Chidananda Rupa Shivoham Shivoham | |
Na Punyam Na Papam Na Saukhyam Na Dukham Na Mantro Na Teertham Na Vedo Na Yajnaha Aham Bhojanam Naiva Bhojyam Na Bhokta Chidananda Rupa Shivoham Shivoham | |
Na Me Mrityu Shanka Na Me Jati Bhedah Pita Naiva Me Naiva Mata Na Janma Na Bandhur Na Mitram Gurur Naiva Shishyah Chidananda Rupa Shivoham Shivoham | |
Aham Nirvikalpo Nirakara Roopaha Vibhur Vyapya Sarvatra Sarvendriyanam Sada Me Samatvam Na Muktir Na Bandhah Chidananda Rupa Shivoham Shivoham Source: Himalayan Masters |
Monday, February 2, 2015
Recovery
Today is the first post operative day after my trauma surgery. I have been operated for a Grade I open comminuted tibial plateau fracture with bicondylar plating. I had sustained a few injuries after a head on collision with a car on Saturday evening about 40 kms outside Coimbatore.
I had finished seeing some OPD patients in the morning and then operated on a patient before leaving for Vellakoil that fateful evening. For unknown reasons, I was tired since morning and slightly irritable too. I shouted at OT staff and spoke in a depressing manner with the cashier that day. I then left for my house, picked up my clothes for the next day and set upon for the drive. It was five in the evening when I started, still bright, with heavy city traffic slowing me down. Just after crossing Palladam, I am on my usual road at usual speed, debating whether to stop for coffee at my usual coffee stop at Pongalur. I remember seeing a lorry coming towards me in the opposite lane and then all of a sudden a car appears from behind the lorry and within a fraction of a second, the car had hit me head-on. All I remember is the sudden bang, I open my eyes and realise I had bit my lip, the airbag has been deployed, everything is fuzzy, smoke coming out of my dashboard, and I was struggling to breathe. the driver side door wouldn't open. Then I realise I had injured my left knee - proximal tibia. Then I find out that my right ankle hurts too.
Soon I see people rushing from outside, some trying to pull me out of the car through the passenger door. I feel totally weak, unable to stand on walk with blood oozing from my left knee. They made me sit erect along the road but I prefer to lie down. I now realise I have double vision. Someone comes close to me and reassures everything is alright. A lady is crying next to me. Somebody reassures her too. Then some one from the crowd appears claiming to be a doctor. I tell him I work at Ortho one. They make me wait for a few minutes when an ambulance arrives they throw me inside the unmanned ambulance on a metal trolley and I am speeded to Ortho one.
The love and care I have been receiving for the past two days has been tremendous. I have been taken care very well for the past two days at every level. What is daunting is the next 2 -3 months, the time I am going to spend in bed, walking NWB with crutches. I have never had so much time of inactivity with limited mobility.
I have planned to spend this time fruitfully, consciously.
I had finished seeing some OPD patients in the morning and then operated on a patient before leaving for Vellakoil that fateful evening. For unknown reasons, I was tired since morning and slightly irritable too. I shouted at OT staff and spoke in a depressing manner with the cashier that day. I then left for my house, picked up my clothes for the next day and set upon for the drive. It was five in the evening when I started, still bright, with heavy city traffic slowing me down. Just after crossing Palladam, I am on my usual road at usual speed, debating whether to stop for coffee at my usual coffee stop at Pongalur. I remember seeing a lorry coming towards me in the opposite lane and then all of a sudden a car appears from behind the lorry and within a fraction of a second, the car had hit me head-on. All I remember is the sudden bang, I open my eyes and realise I had bit my lip, the airbag has been deployed, everything is fuzzy, smoke coming out of my dashboard, and I was struggling to breathe. the driver side door wouldn't open. Then I realise I had injured my left knee - proximal tibia. Then I find out that my right ankle hurts too.
Soon I see people rushing from outside, some trying to pull me out of the car through the passenger door. I feel totally weak, unable to stand on walk with blood oozing from my left knee. They made me sit erect along the road but I prefer to lie down. I now realise I have double vision. Someone comes close to me and reassures everything is alright. A lady is crying next to me. Somebody reassures her too. Then some one from the crowd appears claiming to be a doctor. I tell him I work at Ortho one. They make me wait for a few minutes when an ambulance arrives they throw me inside the unmanned ambulance on a metal trolley and I am speeded to Ortho one.
The love and care I have been receiving for the past two days has been tremendous. I have been taken care very well for the past two days at every level. What is daunting is the next 2 -3 months, the time I am going to spend in bed, walking NWB with crutches. I have never had so much time of inactivity with limited mobility.
I have planned to spend this time fruitfully, consciously.
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Few things....
It's been long I wrote...few reasons, you need the mindset and the time to write, and then most of all, your urge has to be so much that you want to write, leaving everything else aside.
I was pained by the news of the killing of Gaddafi. I am not a pro Gadaffi mobster or something..I am just not happy the way human race is evolving, or perhaps not evolving.
I heard a psycologist speak in our national meeting that 75% of us get an instinct to kill somebody at some point of time in our life. Somebody, who can be your worst enemy or more commonly a person sitting next to you and annoying you while you are on the bus. It is just a momentary instinct. Most of us dont execute it. The psycologist felt tht this instinct is form the days of the cavemen. We liked killing. Have we changed much?
We talk about civilisation and justice and human rights and all that sh-t. But just in the past few months, we saw a mass genocide of tamils in Srilanka, we saw the brutal shootout of Osama bin laden and now Gadaffi. I dont justify the actions of Osama or gadaffi. The way human race behaves has not changed over millena. The whole concept of killing for revenge is not human, It is animal. Killing a fellow of your own species, how evolved that is! when that is done by countries claiming to be the epitome of justice and human rights, this means we 've got a long long way to go...
Killing would not end anything, killing would not end tyranny, it would foster if at all, it would not end terrorism, it would not end enimity, it would not end hate, to see this exuberant zeal in killing seen around the world today, it is just disheatening.
will a day come when we can forgive...deal with crime in a more humane way...really love peace...
will that day ever come?
I was pained by the news of the killing of Gaddafi. I am not a pro Gadaffi mobster or something..I am just not happy the way human race is evolving, or perhaps not evolving.
I heard a psycologist speak in our national meeting that 75% of us get an instinct to kill somebody at some point of time in our life. Somebody, who can be your worst enemy or more commonly a person sitting next to you and annoying you while you are on the bus. It is just a momentary instinct. Most of us dont execute it. The psycologist felt tht this instinct is form the days of the cavemen. We liked killing. Have we changed much?
We talk about civilisation and justice and human rights and all that sh-t. But just in the past few months, we saw a mass genocide of tamils in Srilanka, we saw the brutal shootout of Osama bin laden and now Gadaffi. I dont justify the actions of Osama or gadaffi. The way human race behaves has not changed over millena. The whole concept of killing for revenge is not human, It is animal. Killing a fellow of your own species, how evolved that is! when that is done by countries claiming to be the epitome of justice and human rights, this means we 've got a long long way to go...
Killing would not end anything, killing would not end tyranny, it would foster if at all, it would not end terrorism, it would not end enimity, it would not end hate, to see this exuberant zeal in killing seen around the world today, it is just disheatening.
will a day come when we can forgive...deal with crime in a more humane way...really love peace...
will that day ever come?
Monday, September 5, 2011
The mind and its dances
Thought is solid as anything else in the world. A simple thought on repetition several times in the mind becomes as big as a monster and frightens you with its might. It gains power from yourself, your mind and with its enormous power, enslaves you and convinces you to act on its whim. Any thought, for that matter, is as powerful, good or bad. Amplification of a thought makes it the most powerful thing in the world, capable of creating or destroying universes.
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Misfit!
Living in the white man's country is not always that pleasant. You have this feeling of being an untouchable all the time. The learned behaviour of being inferior because of birth. You cant talk like them, cant fully understand what they are talking (or joking) about, cant enjoy thier music, cant feel ecstatic on a friday night "outing" getting drunk for exhorbitantly high prices in the noisiest of the places on earth, where you need to shout your heart out and still can't be heard, cannot go to a play or a show because it costs you a month of ration for the whole family back home, and if you still go, you cant appraciate or understand what's happening there, you want pepper and salt for what ever you order, your seat is the last to get filled in a bus or a tram, it takes a few minutes before you realise that they have made fun of you, and so on.
The felling of being a misfit, is ot one of the good feelings, I would say. But as soon as I call it a feeling, it comes out of my mind. My mind is the origin of that thought, it does not emanate from outside but from my own inside. So I can teach myself to be still happy, ignoring the things around. Is that so?
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